CWRU mourns loss of Pat Kilpatrick, alumna and university鈥檚 first female VP
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Funeral services will be held Saturday, March 19, for Patricia Baldwin Kilpatrick, a beloved member of the 杏吧视频 community for more than 50 years and the university鈥檚 first female vice president. Pat, as she was known, died peacefully Thursday, March 3, with her daughter Kate by her side. She was 88.
鈥溞影墒悠 has lost one of its most extraordinary leaders,鈥 President Barbara R. Snyder said. 鈥淎n exceptional educator, administrator and alumna advocate, Pat brought insight and energy to all that she did. Her impact on students and colleagues cannot be overstated, and she will be deeply missed.鈥
Pat was born in 1927 in Cleveland, and graduated from East Cleveland鈥檚 Shaw High School. She initially attended Ohio Wesleyan University, where she became a member of Kappa Alpha Theta. In 1947, she transferred to Flora Stone Mather College for Women in 1947 for family reasons, and quickly grew to love the campus community. She competed in basketball, volleyball, field hockey and riding for Mather, and graduated in 1949 with a bachelor鈥檚 degree in history.
Pat had hoped to attend the university鈥檚 law school after graduation and even won admission, but ultimately had to turn down the acceptance because she could not afford to enroll. Still, the department chair for physical education insisted Pat needed some kind of advanced degree, and so arranged for her to pursue a master鈥檚 degree while living in Haydn Hall. After graduation in 1951, she married, had three children and taught at the high school level.
She returned to 杏吧视频 in 1962, spending three years as a faculty member in physical education, then becoming a dean at Mather College. It was in this latter role that she met a first-year student named Stephanie Tubbs Jones, who would go on to become a member of the U.S. Congress before dying of a brain aneurysm in 2008. Speaking at President Snyder鈥檚 investiture ceremony the previous year, Rep. Tubbs Jones singled out two people in the audience: her congressional predecessor and mentor Louis Stokes, and Pat.
鈥淚 loved her so much I had [my son] Mervyn on her birthday,鈥 Tubbs Jones said, then later spoke of how important it was for young women to see females in leadership positions. 鈥淥nce they see a positive example of what they can become, their possibilities for the future are limitless.鈥
Tubbs Jones and thousands of others had such a role model in Kilpatrick. The dean did not hesitate to discipline students who violated rules, but at the same time made clear she did so because she saw something more within them. She also showed great compassion to students devastated after bad grades or poor test scores; from experience, she knew well how they felt.
鈥淲hen I first came to college, I was thinking of becoming a doctor, but that changed because I failed organic chemistry,鈥 Kilpatrick said during a 2010 interview. 鈥淔ailing a course was the best thing that could have happened to me because when I was a dean and talking to kids who had failed courses and thought their life was over, I said, 鈥榃ell, it isn鈥檛.鈥
鈥淭hen I鈥檇 tell them that I failed a course... Then they鈥檇 think, 鈥榃ell, maybe it isn鈥檛 the worst thing,鈥 [and] I said, 鈥榊ou have to come back and put your mind to what you鈥檙e going to take next.鈥欌
Throughout the late 1970s and 1980s, Kilpatrick took on increasingly prominent roles in the administration, including becoming secretary of the university. In 1987, she became 杏吧视频鈥檚 first female vice president, a position that meant she joined the President鈥檚 Cabinet.
鈥淥nce you have a foot in the door, then you hire more women, and then you get a foot in another door,鈥 Kilpatrick recalled. 鈥淭hat鈥檚 how it happens. It鈥檚 all politics, you know, and all politics are local.鈥
Kilpatrick retired from the university in 1992, yet continued active engagement in the Flora Stone Mather Alumnae Association and other university activities. She played an essential leadership role in the association鈥檚 decision to distribute its remaining $5 million endowment to the university in 2008, which included gifts to scholarships, the Flora Stone Mather Center for Women and the Alumni House. In 2009, the university celebrated the unveiling of Kilpatrick鈥檚 university portrait at the alumni house, although the picture itself hangs in Adelbert Hall.
鈥淚've had plenty of time to think about the place of this university in the grand scheme of higher education,鈥 Kilpatrick said at that ceremony. 鈥淚t has always been good. Now it is great. I want to thank all of you for coming to share in what I call a super family reunion.鈥
After being inducted into the university鈥檚 athletics hall of fame in 2000, Kilpatrick received the Daniel Clancy Alumni Service Award in 2011. In 2013, she received another alumni award鈥攖his time as Notable Woman of the Year.
Kilpatrick鈥檚 other institutional passion has been the Episcopal Church. She served as a lay reader and held several elected offices at local, diocesan and national levels. She served three terms as Standing Committee president, was deputy for seven general conventions, and spent more than a dozen years as a trustee of the General Theological Seminary in New York City. In 1997, she was awarded the Bishop鈥檚 Medal.
In recent years, her place of worship had been Trinity Cathedral in downtown Cleveland. This church also is where services will be held at 3 p.m., Saturday, March 19, with visitation at the same location at 1:30 p.m. that day.
Pat is survived by her daughter, Rev. Catherine 鈥淜ate鈥 Louise Walsh, and her son-in-law Mike; her son Rufus Hall Kilpatrick III and daughter-in-law Kellie; and grandchildren Jonathan LaVerne Walsh, Jessica Elizabeth Walsh and Isabel Kilpatrick. One son, Timothy Leland Kilpatrick, preceded her in death.
Donations may be made to the Patricia Baldwin Kilpatrick Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o 杏吧视频, 10900 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, OH 44106-7035 or to Trinity Cathedral, 2230 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, OH 44106.
Shortly before she died, Pat received a message from a former student:
鈥淵ou have always had a big heart! Big enough to love and be loved in so many ways through your life鈥. Big enough to stand strong on principles and values that needed to be made more visible. Big enough to mentor and support thousands of students like me, and big enough to share and care and dare us to take on the challenges we feared... I wish I could hold your heart in my hand and make it work a little harder and much longer.鈥